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Recommendations

A hand-picked collection of books and podcasts that I use myself and recommend to anyone who wants to understand their brain and grow as a person.

Apps for inspiration

The recommendations on this page are based on my own experience and are shared for inspiration. Love U First has no paid partnerships with the apps, products, or sources shown here.

Tiimo

An app for visual planning of everyday activities.

Impulse

An app with games and activities covering areas such as memory and logic.

memoryOS

An app with memory games and activities involving memory techniques.

Finch

Finch is an app for personal daily habits, reflection, and short exercises. It is only an optional supplement, not treatment. Basic features are free, and Finch Plus is optional.

VR-supported CBT: a look at the research

Research into VR-supported cognitive behavioural therapy focuses particularly on structured exposure and anxiety disorders. Some findings are promising, but VR does not replace individual professional assessment or treatment.

Read the research article (English)

Books

Books that have inspired my practice and my clients

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Recommended

27 Easy Daily Steps to Enhance Your Happiness

Louise Lai Wiinholt

My own book — a practical guide filled with simple but effective exercises for self-reflection and personal growth. Perfect for gaining more clarity, self-worth, and joy.

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ADHD

Scattered Minds

Gabor Maté

Gabor Maté’s perspective on attention and ADHD.

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ADHD

ADHD 2.0

Edward Hallowell & John Ratey

An updated, research-based guide to living well with ADHD — with concrete strategies and a positive, strength-based approach.

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Nervous System

The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk

Explains how our bodies hold trauma and stress — and the paths that lead to healing. Essential for anyone working with the nervous system.

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Self-development

Untamed

Glennon Doyle

A powerful and courageous book about listening to yourself, breaking free from others' expectations, and living an authentic life.

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ADHD

I'm Not Lazy, Crazy, or Stupid

Kate Kelly & Peggy Ramundo

A classic for adults with ADHD. Practical, friendly and validating — and a huge help in understanding what is happening in your brain.

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Why Does Everybody Hate Me?

Alex Partridge

On rejection sensitivity, ADHD and relationships.

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Unmasking for Life

Devon Price

On autism, masking and living more authentically.

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Why Can't I Just Enjoy Things?

Pierre Novellie

A comedian’s personal perspective on autism.

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Now It All Makes Sense - How An ADHD Diagnosis Changed My Life

Alex Partridge

Alex Partridge’s account of receiving an ADHD diagnosis.

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Different...Not Less

Temple Grandin

Stories about work and neurodivergence.

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Autism in Heels

Jennifer Cook O'Toole

A personal account of life as an autistic woman.

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ADHD Girls to Women

Lotta Borg Skoglund

On ADHD in girls and women who are overlooked.

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How to Thrive with Adult ADHD

James Kustow

Perspectives and everyday strategies for adults with ADHD.

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The Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome

Dr Tony Attwood

An extensive book on autism using the historical term Asperger’s syndrome in its title.

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Smart But Stuck

Thomas E. Brown

On emotions in teenagers and adults with ADHD.

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Different, Not Less

Chloé Hayden

On neurodivergence, identity and self-acceptance.

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Neurotribes

Steve Silberman

A history of autism and neurodiversity.

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A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD

Sari Solden MS, Michelle Frank PsyD

On self-acceptance and barriers faced by women with ADHD.

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Women with Attention Deficit Disorder

Sari Solden

On women’s experiences of attention difficulties.

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Female Hormones and ADHD

Lotta Borg Skoglund, Helena Kopp Kallner

On hormones and ADHD across women’s lives.

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The Lost Girls of Autism

Gina Rippon

On autistic girls and women who have been overlooked.

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Autism and Girls

Tony Attwood, Temple Grandin, Catherine Faherty, Jennifer McIlwee-Myers, Ruth Snyder, Sheila Wagner, Mary Wrobel, Lisa Iland, Teresa Bolick

Perspectives on everyday life for autistic girls and women.

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ADHD Explained

Edward Hallowell

An introduction to understanding ADHD.

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The Autist's Guide to the Galaxy

Clara Törnvall

On navigating a world shaped by neurotypical norms.

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The Autists

Clara Törnvall

On women on the autism spectrum.

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But You Don't Look Autistic at All

Bianca Toeps

A personal account of autism and other people’s expectations.

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The Autistic Survival Guide to Therapy

Steph Jones

Perspectives on therapy from an autistic standpoint.

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Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships

Veronica Zysk, Sean Barron, Temple Grandin

On social relationships from autistic perspectives.

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Dirty Laundry

Richard Pink, Roxanne Emery

On shame, ADHD and support in close relationships.

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Aspergirls

Rudy Simone

On autistic women’s experiences and sense of self.

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Extra Focus

Jesse J. Anderson

A short introduction to everyday life with adult ADHD.

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UNMASKED

Ellie Middleton

On ADHD, autism and neurodivergence.

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Taking Charge of ADHD, Third Edition

Russell A. Barkley

A guide for parents of children with ADHD.

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Taking Charge of Adult ADHD, Second Edition

Russell A. Barkley, Christine M. Benton

On ADHD at work, at home and in relationships.

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Driven to Distraction

Edward M. Hallowell

On recognising and understanding attention difficulties.

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Women with ADHD

Roberta Sanders

On women with ADHD and everyday challenges.

Podcasts

Podcasts I listen to and recommend

ADHD reWired

Podcast

Eric Tivers

Practical strategies, coaching, and interviews for adults with ADHD. Focuses on productivity, habits, and living a good life with ADHD.

Hacking Your ADHD

Podcast

William Curb

Short, action-oriented episodes with concrete tips and strategies for navigating ADHD in everyday life.

The Mindset Mentor

Podcast

Rob Dial

Inspiring episodes on personal growth, self-worth, and mental strength. Perfect for anyone wanting to work on their mindset and potential.

Unlocking Us

Podcast

Brené Brown

In-depth conversations about vulnerability, courage, empathy, and human connection. Brené Brown is one of the most influential voices in personal development.

ADHD Chatter

Podcast

Alex Partridge

Conversations about ADHD and lived experience.

The Hidden 20%

Podcast

The Hidden 20%

Conversations about neurodivergence and life beyond diagnoses.

ADHD Experts Podcast

Podcast

ADDitude

Expert discussions about ADHD and everyday challenges.

LATE BLOOMERS

Podcast

Rich og Rox Pink

On ADHD and experiences of late diagnosis.

ADHD Women’s Wellbeing Podcast

Podcast

Kate Moryoussef

On women, ADHD and wellbeing.

The AuDHD Psych Podcast

Podcast

HowearthPsychology

Perspectives on co-occurring autism and ADHD.

You’re Wrong About ADHD

Podcast

Global

Conversations about perceptions and experiences of ADHD.

The ADHD Channel for Women

Podcast

Understood.org

ADHD from women’s perspectives.

Neurodivergent Strategies for Late-Diagnosed Adults: The Divergent Paths Podcast

Podcast

Regina McMenomy, PhD

Conversations and perspectives on neurodivergence.

It’s just AuDHD

Podcast

John Blanco-Slingerland og Tarah Peltz

Conversations and perspectives on neurodivergence.

talkADHD

Podcast

Matt Gupwell

Conversations and perspectives on neurodivergence.

The Co-Founders of Claude AI Tell Oprah About the Impact Artificial Intelligence Has on Your Life

Podcast

The Oprah Podcast

A conversation with the co-founders behind Claude AI about artificial intelligence and its impact on everyday life.

Remembering Bob Chapman: The Mentor Who Changed My Life

Podcast

A Bit of Optimism

A reflection on Bob Chapman and his influence as a mentor.

Organisations

Here you can find external organisations offering information, advice or communities. Love U First is not responsible for the content or updates on external websites.

Articles, research and webinars

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Tandbørstningsprojektet

Region Hovedstaden · Psykoterapeutisk ambulatorium

Direct link to the Danish project material as a PDF.

Official diagnostic criteria and guidelines

Find official ADHD and autism sources from WHO, the United States and the United Kingdom, alongside information on Danish diagnostic classification. WHO manuals are international sources; they do not establish that every EU country uses the same version. Diagnostic criteria and clinical guidelines are identified separately.

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WHO — autism in ICD-11

Official clinical diagnostic requirements. CDDR, 2024, section 6A02; printed pages 124–125.

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WHO — ADHD in ICD-11

Official clinical diagnostic requirements. CDDR, 2024, section 6A05; printed pages 142–143.

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WHO — ICD-10

Clinical descriptions and diagnostic guidelines from 1992. The research criteria from 1993 are a separate manual.

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Denmark — classification and ICD-11

The Danish Health Data Authority describes Danish coding as ICD-10 with national extensions. See also its information on the transition to ICD-11.

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APA — DSM-5-TR and updates

DSM-5-TR was published in 2022. APA publishes approved changes to criteria and text; this link is not the complete manual.

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CDC — ADHD diagnostic criteria

Public overview with shortened DSM-5 criteria and additional requirements. The page concerns clinical care of children and also includes a symptom threshold for people aged 17 and over.

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CDC — autism diagnostic criteria

Public presentation of DSM-5 criteria on a page about assessment in children. DSM-5 and DSM-5-TR should not be confused.

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NICE — ADHD assessment

NG87, section 1.3: a clinical guideline referring to DSM-5 or ICD-11. It describes professional assessment; it is not a separate diagnostic manual.

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NICE — autism assessment in adults

CG142, updated 14 June 2021, section 1.2. A clinical guideline on identification and comprehensive professional assessment of adults.

Official source

AuDHD — autism and ADHD together

AuDHD refers to autism and ADHD together. WHO describes that both diagnoses may be assigned when the requirements for each are met. See the NHS explanation and WHO CDDR, printed page 131.

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